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Is it perfect?

I'm feeling a little preachy ladies but bare with me lol.

In a perfect world we have a woman. Her children are obedient. Her husband never makes mistakes. Her family never fights. Her job adores her. Her finances are in order. Her credit score is perfect. She can eat all day and never gain a pound. Her car is never low on gas. Her home is always spotless. She rarely gets tired.

One day her coworker asked a very important question, "How much do you pray?" With how perfect your life is you surely are praying long and hard every night.

She responds. "Pray? For what I have everything i have every wanted. I have the perfect life, but i may try this prayer thing that you are talking about. It wouldn't hurt."

Mrs. Perfection walked away thinking.

God am I really in this perfect world? Nobody knows my children never talk to me. My husband is never home. My family all secretly hate each other. My job no longer brings me joy. My money doesn't make me happy. My credit cant buy Your love. No matter how much i eat I never get full. I only drive this car for the status. My home is just a house. And my soul is weary. I have tried to fill a void God that is only shaped for you and I know now that you are the most important part of me. I am not perfect but with You God I'm better.


These are some of the saddest times we've every encountered but there is no better time to grow closer to God. Even in the midst of the storm we know that everything we are going through shall pass and better days are coming. I can honestly say that I am so blessed and I am so thankful that my life is not what it used to be. I am thankful that I am not the woman I used to be. I would like to encourage each of you that You are beautifully and wonderfully made and no matter what you're going to be ok.

Until next time, Love you all.



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